Saay What?

So last Wednesday I talked/preached and well, I thought I didn't do so hot. I missed my first point, and went too fast so at the end I was starting to kill time. But that's not why I'm writing this post. My talk was really about two things 1. tough love and accepting it, 2 willingness to communicate that tough love to people by stepping up and talking face to face. I talked about how I found it hard to talk tough love face to face. Well, the other day someone *cough Nate cough* talked about how its time I needed to step up and talk a bite out of my own words. (i really don't like fighting with people, and or have conflict. my answer to conflict has always been, 1. ignore it, 2, if that doesn't work avoid contact with that person for as long as possible till # 1 works.) but i was called out, and well it was hard, but I believe I ready for the next step and talk face to face with this person and see whats up. (by the way I'm talking about two different people)